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极简的原来基本就就是：眼不见为净! 13 minutes ago |

Many things in our life are uncertain. If i can’t decide what to do next from logic and experience, I use my intuition. When in doubt, leave it out. When in doubt, use default. 11 minutes ago |

Some people don't like AI writing. What if one day in the future, AI can write much better contents than any human could do. Is the content that matters, or who create the content? I buy a book for the what it has to say in the book, not because of the author. 📧 8 minutes ago |

There are 2 types of digital products (devices and apps) - the designer's and engineer's. Designer's products make you feel good to use them. They solve your problems quietly, reduce your mental efforts. The designers have thought about it for you. It may not do the things you like, but it works and is neat. “It just works”. But maybe you like it too much for how it looks and feels. While the engineering-minded would think designer's products are too hand-holding. The engineer's products give…

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I asked my my little one who he wants to be or what he wants to do when he grows up. He answered: I just want to be myself. *Be myself** Simple but not easy! The worst part - we forget about it when we grow up. 初心 📧 |

I live in my calendar and todo lists. If it is not in my calendar, I won't remember. I write down every chores and ambitions in my todo list app. I am a productivity junkie - I hope the tricks and apps can soothe my pain of getting things done. I don't care whether human can go to Mars one day, I don't see the point. I need to stop treating life as a project. Maybe we all do ? 📧 |

What do we mean by attention? Is there attention when I am forcing my mind to attend? When I say to myself, I must pay attention, I must control my mind and push aside all other thoughts," would you call that attention? Surely that is not attention. What happens when the mind forces itself to pay attention? It creates a resistance to prevent other thoughts from seeping in; it is concerned with resistance, with pushing away; therefore it is incapable of attention. That is true, is it not? To…

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I am a parent. Parenting change your life, not everyone could deal with it. The best comment I heard about being a parent and their young children was “ you love them to death, but at the same time, you want to kill them sometimes”. It is so true. I could have a much easier life if I am not a parent. So why? I don’t know (like many other things in my life), but I don’t regret it. Sometimes, I fantasise that if I haven’t done this and that what would my life would be now? Knowing what I know now…

I reinstall the Minecraft java edition on my laptop, it is so much better than playing the bedrock edition on iPad with mouse and keyboard - yes i am too old to get used to touch screen to play games. I start a new single player world in hardcore mode which I haven't done before. I can't respawn, I can die and the game is over - just like real life. I am camping, exploring the cave, eating what I can catch. I might grow some crops if I am staying a spot long enough. After a couple of days (in…

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the most popular or voted blog posts on bear blog, are about: fuck ai fuck social media or the internet bearblog is fucking great it is an impression not stats. but i am getting bored of these recurring themes in the discovery feed, come on people. Previous |

plan my day is hard. i have tried many hacks - bullet journals, time box - nothing sticks. never ask myself why i must do this? deep down, the real reason is that i don't want to decide what to do next. i would do nothing, just sit there, do nothing! i don't plan my day to be a useful person, be more productive, to conquer the shortness of life. but there are bills to pay, kids to feed and toilets to clean - too many balls that i can't afford to drop. time makes no sense. Previous |

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re: https://forkingmad.blog/who-knows-that-you-blog/ for me: no one IRL, why? it is fun to have another persona on line if i want to share my thoughts with people i know in life - i talk to them, text them or email them. they are different conversations in a different dimension. there is nothing to advocate or defend of what i said here. if i connect with someone online from here, the connection from a piece of me - we have something in common or the opposite - a thought, a hobby ... we might…

we should forget, day by day, what we have done - this is true no attachment. and we should do something new. to do something new, of course we must know our past, and this is alright. but we should not holding on anything we have don; we should only reflect on it. and we must have some idea of what we should do in the future. but the future is the future, the past is the past; now we should work on something new. this is our attitude, and how we should live in this world. -- shunryu suzuki…

i tried and built my second brain in obsidian, and this is the result: Previous |

不相信天国，不相信地狱，也不相信轮回。 无神论者的无神本身就是神。 人生就像坐在火车看风景的人 - 既是体验也是过客。 Previous |

the secret powder if introverts is the don't need others! Previous |

i don't think anybody care , but do i ? Previous |

a safe shelter safe food and water source - i can cook well. reasonable laptop and fast laptop that's all i need for me to survive and entertain myself intellectually. Previous |

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比較導致不快樂，或者說不平靜。 明顯的比較是和別人的比較。 不明顯的比較，也是人們沒注意的，就是和自己的比較： 自己期望的理想結果 原本可以是這樣的，但是因為一些不可控力，結果沒有達到想要的結果 所謂的‘早知道’，’原本‘ 。 別人拿了一手好牌 自己本來可以拿一手好牌，或者本來已經被派了好牌，但是被拿回去了，其實遊戲還沒有開始，不過我們總是對那本來的好牌念念不忘，覺得自己損失了什麼。 我們在比較一些我們都從未得到過但是有覺得是失去/錯過的結局。 不要自尋煩惱。 Previous |

it doesn't matter how good your camera, it is not exactly what you saw. my photos are my memories, sort of... Previous |

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死亡并不可怕，可怕的是你知道你在等待死亡同时又无能为力。 例如，你身体已经很累了，昏昏欲睡，然后： 死神告你，这次你睡着了就再也醒不来了。然后你带着恐惧努力挣扎不要入睡，最后还是睡着了。 你不知道你这一睡就再也醒不来了。 结果都一样，你选哪个？ Previous |

one thing i like about twitter or x is that i don't have to give a title for every single random thought i have. naming things is hard. computer work with files, files need names. i can't remember how many 'untitled' txt file have created over years. i just don't know how to name them. it could be just one sentence, but i have to give it a tile. i tried OBTF way, too chronicle, I couldn't stick. i am sticky note person in real life. i stick my stickies to my paper notebook. Previous |

i use a task manger app to reduce my anxiety not the opposite, same for the note taking apps, second brainers' app etc... Previous |