bored, need cuties

I'm super bored, and someone on discord is talking about their menagerie of queer friends and partners that they spend time with and I'm not above saying I'm jealoussssss. Where does one even find so many queer folk?! I've gone to the one gay bar, a few queer meetups, pride. How do you end up in situations where you can meaningfully talk to people to the point of becoming friends, let alone lovers, casual, platonic, or otherwise. I dunno, I'll keep trying, but my kingdom for some people who care about me, and also wouldn't mind receiving occasional platonic oral. Just give me the magic radar that points me too all the other kindred spirits who yearn as I do. Living so far in the middle of nowhere has few perks, and the isolation can be so heavy at times like these. Give me the friendship of simple company, where you show up unannounced and pass no judgement. I'm just tired and yearning, and I know I'm not alone, it just feels like I am.