The Loudest One in the Room Is the Weakest

In any argument, the one who raises their voice loses. Because raising your voice means you used force instead of quality to elevate your case. That is the first sign of low emotional control. You are being exposed. You showed the world that you are vulnerable. That you cannot contain your frustrations. That you have not channelled your anger. You will find such people everywhere. You could even be one. There are people who scream and break things. That is how they assert dominance in an argument when they have nothing substantial to add. So they showcase strength. To bully you into submission. They want you down. And they want it now. They are seeking absolute surrender. Submission through instilled fear. They do it because that is the only framework they understand. They feel guilt. Once the anger subsides. Once the energy dissipates. They settle into normalcy. That normalcy reminds them of their actions. The memory sits there like a hangover. Then they apologise. Or try to behave…