There is a certain relief in being unprepared and yet arriving at your destination with grace. It feels rebellious — as if you have defied the very fabric of nature, as if you have vaulted over your mental barriers rather than inching around them. The best stories, after all, involve a bit of unplanned shenanigans. There is nothing wrong or inappropriate about being organised. Certain things reward planning — investments, insurance, your career, your overall wellbeing. But you shouldn't place too much emphasis on planning your experiences. The very word experience implies that you go out there and feel your way through whatever you are engaging in. Like all good things, striking the right balance between the two makes life sweeter. For anything with long-term reward, plan deliberately — structure your life so you get to enjoy the fruits of today's labour. But say you're going out on a date with someone. Pick a handful of good restaurants and give her the choice. Choose the ones that…
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