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  1. "All we can do is follow depth wherever it leads."

    I am confident this is Sharon Olds - but I can't find where I saw it.

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  2. "The mind in truth contains no knots or tangles."

    Han Shan

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  3. "Place your mind before the mirror of eternity."

    St. Clare to her friend Agnes. via Mark K.

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  4. "Business and money are the only two obscene topics left in American poetry."

    Business and money are the only two obscene topics left in American poetry. You can write specifically about sexual acts or excrement in American poetry and be praised, but if you write about business, you’re considered somehow polluted. I think even the business people who are poets, there’s been about a dozen, fifteen of them, they’re really quite famous, starting with Stevens and Elliot, to people like Dickey and Eberhardt. Those people tend not to write about their experience because they…

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  5. "The central struggle of parenthood is to let our hopes for our children outweigh our fears."

    Ellen Goodman via the excellent Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne

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  6. "Half of America Cannot Afford to Live, and Other Wrong Numbers"

    Reasonable people can disagree, but I thought this was a really fascinating take

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  7. "to distill the eternal from the transitory."

    (The painter) makes it his business to extract from fashion whatever element it may contain of poetry within history, to distill the eternal from the transitory." "By ‘modernity’ I mean the ephemeral, the fugitive, the contingent, the half of art whose other half is the eternal and the immutable." From Baudelaire from The Painter of Modern Life

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  8. "And emptiness is greatest where man was rather than where he was not. Interstellar space is not empty, but there is no worse emptiness than a house in ruins."

    by Miroslav Holub Bin Ramke Via Craig Morgan Teicher

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  9. "This is good. You are listening to your body. You are not too much to hold."

    An excellent new piece "The Art of Longing" by Rachel Elam in Mother Tongue

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  10. "I used to wonder why they didn't build secret doorways into every home. Now I realize they do; some of them are just harder to find."

    Benjamin Tolkin via Christine Kerr

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  11. "No man would become a member of a community, in which he could not enjoy the fruits of his honest labour and industry."

    From William Paterson -

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  12. Watch first movies - Alfonso Cuarón edition

    Just a small pitch for watching the early movies of a director you love. Sólo con tu pareja by Alfonso Cuarón came out in 1991. It is weird and great and if you like later movies of his, Y tu mamá también (2001) and Roma (2018) which were released 10 and 27 years after his first movie respectively, it is fun to see how he continues touching on similar themes. Cuaróns filmography: 1991 Sólo con tu pareja 1995 A Little Princess 1998 Great Expectations 2001 Y tu mamá también 2004 Harry Potter and…

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  13. "The Necessity of Exile" by Shaul Magid

    I avoided reading this for a couple of years because but I found it to be incredibly thought provoking. Magid strikes me as an incredibly intellectually honest and rigorous writer. His thinking and sources do not line up neatly with whatever you come in thinking the different camps are. His arguments and explorations are nuanced and I hope enrich the conversation around this. An excellent book. link here

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  14. "when they look at your work they think of God"

    From the movie Sin (2019) where Michelangelo is talking to Dante. By Andrei Konchalovsky of Andrei Rublev (1966) and others. That you could be doing something at his level for more than 60 years is incredible. And that you could circle around the same themes for that time, I used to find upsetting but I now find beautiful and comforting. Thank you Mark K. for the rec.

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  15. "The Love Box" by Riley Hooper

    An incredible 5 minute documentary that left me in tears. link here Thank you Riley.

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  16. " Such self-indulgence... ultimately threatened no one"

    It's second generation, which emerged in the 1940's - Howard Nemerov, Randall Jarrell, Robert Lowell, Elizabeth Bishop, Delmore Schwartz, Richard Wilbur, Anthony Hecht, John Berryman, among many others - would fuse these techniques with postwar malaise, and an interest in psychoanalysis and existentialism, to produce works that often depended on minor scandalousness, from the incorporation of impolite words like "public hair" in an otherwise traditional sonnet, to the "confession," in…

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  17. "The feeling contains no obligation." A few thoughts on Disclosure Day

    There are books, movies and music that you would be missing something if you didn't experience. We may never know what we are missing but no doubt we are. And then there are those that wash over you, you snap out of it and you are not changed in any meaningful way. Disclosure Day uses tropes and dramatic camera zoom ins to Emily Blunts eyes as she stares at a cardinal - but after watching this movie you are no different for having seen it. No part of you is better or more aware. I want to say…

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  18. Ani ve'ata neshaneh et ha'olam

    Via my parents. Found in my suit pocket after resting there for nine years.

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  19. "Until you see my eyes again, cheer up your heart!" - 1900 BCE
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  20. "The cost of a thing is the amount of what I will call life which is required to be exchanged for it, immediately or in the long run."

    —Henry David Thoreau Via Emily KF

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  21. "If I tell you what to ask, will you ask me?"

    From the Tatterhood Fairy Tale Thanks to Sean Kenney

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  22. "My great advantage is that I don't know what Im doing and I'm old and I don't have time to learn to do it right."

    A few quotes from the beautiful documentary "Jimmy and the Demons." A wonderful new film from the same director and editor team as "Buck" The engine for creativity is play. I just knew I had to present myself to this project. I don't know what Im doing but my hands know what to do. My great advantage is that I don't know what Im doing and I'm old and I don't have time to learn to do it right. Use sharp tools. Change blades often. Art is a blood sport. What makes a person old is lack of purpose.…

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  23. "Your genius is your error."

    I always tell my students not to worry about originality; just try to copy the manners and musics of the various, the more various the better, poetries you love: your originality will come from your inability to copy well: YOUR GENIUS IS YOUR ERROR. Dean Young "The Art of Recklessness"

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  24. "Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?"

    "Before you speak, ask yourself, is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve on the silence?" Widely quoted and attributed to many but the original source of this is unclear

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  25. "He sent the trained dog that is his talent off in search of a fat glorious pheasant, and it brought back the lower half of a Barbie doll."

    "13. When a young person first decides he wants to write, a number of mountains spring up around him, labeled with the names of his heroes. Hemingway Mountain, let’s say. He heads up it, armed with his love for Hemingway. At some point, he starts to get tired. Tired of imitating. Tired of the low-ceiling feeling of trying to express his reality in someone else’s voice. Tired of the way that, by trying to sound and think like someone else, he is falsifying: selling his own experience of life…

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  26. "The main teaching of the Buddha is not to struggle against your life."

    The main teaching of the Buddha is not to struggle against your life. Pema Chodron

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  27. "Let us forgive ourselves for writing poems that aren't better than every other poem that has ever been written."

    Sometimes when we feel disappointed with a poem, with our effort, feel that the poem fails us, it's because it seems to fall short of our intentions. But those intentions are often vague and speculative, and any attempted actualization of those ideas can't help but be anemic. Let us forgive ourselves for writing poems that aren't better than every other poem that has ever been written. Dean Young "The Art of Recklessness"

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  28. "Places can be holy...not because we are told they are, but because we want and need them to be."

    Places can be holy, Almásy reminds us, not because we are told they are, but because we want and need them to be. Places can be holy because we are sharing them with someone we love, just as some places become cursed because they've taken people we love away from us. From Edwidge Danticat - "The Art of Death"

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  29. Rafael at the MET

    I had the pleasure of getting to the MET for the Rafael show which was everything I was told it would be and more. Thank you to those who encouraged me to go. A few gems from the show and a few from nearby exhibition rooms.

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  30. Stop. Think. Observe. Proceed.

    Courtesy of the fine people of Catskill NY Previous

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