Reflections on National Adoption Month

A few hours prior to attending an event several weeks ago, I met up with an online acquaintance and his wife who had come into town. We knew beforehand that a local animal shelter was invited to the event and would bring a couple of their dogs with the hope that they would be adopted by attendees. I can admit it was a sweet initiative. I didn't know this couple very well, but I met them in person once a few years ago. It was nice to kill some time by chatting with them about the evening ahead, except for one unpleasant interaction. As we discussed the dogs we would meet later, this couple's dog naturally came up in the conversation as well. A boxer, whose photo they showed me. "How cute," I said. What followed has (clearly) stuck with me. "When she smells the other dogs on me when we get back, I'll be sure to tell her how grateful she should be that we didn't abandon her and that she has food and water, not like those unworthy dogs waiting to be adopted." Even though I was shocked, I…