disgraceful in aggregate

The whole is never just a sum of the parts. There are lots of things that I find to be disgraceful only when taken in aggregate. But any individual instance of it seems okay, and so I look odd when I object to any of these things.Mobile notification soundsModern car aestheticsMost boxy streetwearTechnology meetupsThat Pop Psychology Writing VoiceApartments in BangaloreThis is the classic problem where every party involved is mostly making reasonable decisions for themselves, but it really lowers the tide for everyone as a whole.These are problems that don't bother me too much, so I don't do much about them. However, if I were to go about fixing them, perhaps the solution is displacement rather than boycott.