Not caring, as an act of self love

It might be my personality type or something. Perhaps even something in my birth chart. But I tend to not care when pushed to the max of my emotional give-a-damness. Not caring has been a powerful self-rescuing force for me in the past. I'm noticing that many people enact cruelty and emotional violence when they see someone cares. Or at least are interested in their welfare. They ride on that energy, using it for emotional blackmail. When I stop caring so much for situations or people, my world is lighter again. I can breathe a little easier. Because ultimately in the end, it's not all that serious! Most things aren't as important as we think they are. I want to practise the gentle act of not caring a little more in my life. I can't be bothered by all the drama I receive simply for giving a damn. Many times creating emotional distance and loosening the grip of care helps me cope. Cope with the nonsense that gets thrown my way. Want to share your thoughts? Feel free to do so here or…