On Putting Sexual Desire on a Pedestal

It is sad to observe when a basic human need is put on a pedestal only because it is socially programmed to seem scarce with so many hurdles in the way to have that basic desire being fulfilled. I see, young man in my surroundings thinking and joking about marriage almost all the time. As marriage is still the only path to fulfilling one's sexual desires for a number of people. Marriage is synonymous to having sex and sex alone. Nobody even fakes to have warmth or a long lasting relation that fulfills other psychological needs but that their only concern is to get laid. This highly basic but nonetheless strong desire to attain orgasmic bliss has been put on a pedestal for the younger generation by the society. They are waiting every day and they are made to wait some more by the society by its multitudes of requirements before this passage of rite takes place. The same society then acts surprised when it sees the younger generation unable to think creatively or do big things other…