Who you would stop being?

The move is available. You have run the numbers and they work. Your partner is supportive. There is even a version of the timing that is genuinely good.You are still not doing it.Every reason you give is a logistic. Not until the project ships. Not until the youngest starts school. Not with the market the way it is.Logistics can be argued withWhich is exactly why you reach for them.A practical objection can be discussed. Somebody can help you solve it, or agree that it is real, and either way you have had a sensible conversation about your career. Now say the other thing out loud in a professional setting. I do not know who I am if I am not the person who does this.Nobody says that at work. Most people do not say it at home either. So it comes out as timing, every single time.Here is the test. If somebody removed the logistic entirely, funded the year, fixed the timing, sorted the school run, would you go? If the answer takes longer to arrive than you expected, the logistic was never…