Trying to work out what the problem is - Bras or Breasts

I've been trying to work out what it is that is most difficult about having Gynaecomastia There should be a chart at the end of this post which is an attempt to pin down my thoughts. I've identified the Five main elements - Inconvenience, Embarrassment, Health, Comfort & Pain and assigned a score for the breast growth and the bra wearing. Certainly having to wear a bra is inconvenient - you have to put it on and take it off, it makes your clothes hang differently, and it can show under your clothes (which slips into the embarrassment line). I am having the inconvenience of wearing a bra while I sleep (that's perhaps comfort) and moisturising the things. I note below the inconvenience of checking for lumps & bumps occasionally. I feel I might be embarrassed (it's not happened yet) if someone notices my bra, or bra straps, although I'm slowly getting to the stage where I just don't care! My breasts are a different matter - they are embarrassing, no other word for it, I still feel like…