Sin is still Sin

Change is good, i have heard that enough times that i don't think i could forget it anymore, for a long time i hated hearing it because it sounded like being told there was something fundamentally wrong with being myself. You can change, you should want to change, you don't have to remain the person you are now. After therapy i spent a long time deciding which things i'd been told were worth keeping, some of it made me angry for years because i couldn't understand why anyone would insist so strongly on changing something that felt so completely mine. i understand more of it now, when somebody can see that you're walking directly toward something bad and you refuse to turn around, eventually kindness doesn't always look like agreement. Not everything inside me deserves to survive simply because it is mine, my mind has been wrong before, my feelings have been wrong before, i've been completely certain about things that weren't true and defended things that were hurting me because…