re:Things to do after your dad dies

I just got done reading (this post from the blog For No One)[https://fornoone.bearblog.dev/things-to-do-after-your-dad-dies/] and I feel like it gave me the courage to talk about when my dad died. I've alluded to it in previous posts, but never got into the weeds of it. I think part of me is afraid of digging up that day from the grave so-to-speak. I still remember that day, almost every detail even 10+ years later. This is gonna be a hard one to write. I want to first extend my condolences to OP. I don't know what she may be going through right now, because as of writing this, her father's death is barely a few weeks old. Obvious trigger warning about death. Let's do this, this is gonna be a bit of a downer. So, I'm sorry in advance. My dad was sick the night before he died. Just a seemingly normal cold/flu. Maybe we should have known better. A while prior to that, doctors had diagnosed him with pneumonia. Shows what they know. The next morning he was still sick. My parents dropped…