I'm Sorry But The Boyfriend Photo Is Weaponized Incompetence

I write about masculinity so you feel less crazy and more vindicated. If you enjoy this work, help keep this media independent and billionaire-free by subscribing!I'm dating someone who takes good pictures of me, and I'm gonna be honest, it's completely destabilized me. It sounds like such a small thing, but I don't think it's actually about photos. I think it's about attention, memory, and how unbelievably low the bar has become for men. We unpacked all of it on the latest episode of Boy Problems.For the record, I’m not discombobulated because the pictures are amazing, that part is great. Im freaking out because I realized I'd accepted that this was just one of those things women weren't supposed to expect from men. One day he took a photo of me that he loved and I didn't. I mentioned, almost as an aside, that I don't love how my lips tend to go downward from certain angles and that it’s taken from an angle I usually don’t like. He told me the angles he also hates of himself, and…