my philosophy on relationships

I've been having some serious issues with a long-time friend recently, so I've been thinking about how to explain my view of relationships, and what I fundamentally expect from them. At a later time, when we text about it, it will probably be pared down quite a bit. I have needs. I can ask you to meet them, but you can say no. I am responsible for meeting my own needs. If you aren't willing to meet them, it is my job to look elsewhere for my needs to be met - whether I need a different friend to hang out with, a therapist to help with my emotional turmoil, welfare for material needs, or even to be more self-sufficient. If I'm hurt, it is my responsibility to communicate & then respect your position. If I'm hurting too much, it is my responsibility to end the friendship to protect myself. I have boundaries. You must respect them. It is non-negotiable. There is room for forgiveness if you make mistakes. We can likely move on if you take accountability. If you do not take accountability,…