Identity story: Writing a “non-traditional” Colombian girl without offensive implications

WWC Follower Asks:Hi! Im currently writing a story about an upper class Colombian girl (who lives in Colombia) who’s autistic and queer, and spends plenty of time online on fandom spaces. Due to the fact she spends most of her time on us-centric spaces, she has assimilated on aspects of US culture strongly, to the point her own thoughts are in English at the moment, as US-centric (or English speaking) communities of people with her same interests/neurodivergencies/sexual orientations are bigger than Latin American ones. This will causes her to have an identity crisis over where does she truly belong, as she doesn’t feel that she fits traditional Colombian expectations (which is noted by people close to her) and she knows she will never fully “get” the people of her online spaces. I also must add she doesn’t have a “traditionally” Colombian personality, as she’s quiet and nerdy.The issue comes with her character development, as i want her to come to terms with herself and find what…