The Strange Comfort of the “Retreat”: Why We Keep Leaving Home to Get Better

The Promise of Elsewhere Nobody teaches us to say it, and yet everybody says it. I just need to get away for a while. We say it after bad years and bad news, after burnouts and break-ups, and sometimes after nothing we can name at all. The curious thing is not that we say it, but what the sentence assumes — that whatever is wrong with us is somehow anchored to where we are, and that a sufficient quantity of distance will loosen its grip. It is a very old assumption indeed. For as long as human beings have been getting themselves into trouble, they have been packing their bags and going somewhere else to get better. The question worth asking is why we remain so certain that it works. Image Credit Wikimedia The Ancient Roots of Retreat The retreat, it turns out, is one of humanity’s most persistent inventions. The ancient Greeks travelled considerable distances to sleep in temples dedicated to Asclepius, the god of healing, in the hope that a cure would arrive in a dream — an early…