Obsession v/s Love

I don't even know why I'm writing this. But my thoughts need to go somewhere. I have been thinking about obsession. I am not here to defend the guy for not telling the girl that he loved her when she asked him about it. Because that is obviously the right thing to do. But I don't think the wish the guy made in itself is a bad wish. Let's start with what love is. In my opinion, the love is everything positive there is. Everything good there is. Love is everything that not only makes you happy, but also everything that makes your partner happy. And that is my opinion on what love is. Love has boundaries, love has trust. Love has respect for each other's individuality. I don't know how far it is from the truth of what exactly love actually is. And yes, I know that something cannot entirely be positive. Like something cannot entirely be negative. So I'm surely wrong about love here, but that's what I expect love to be. Entirely positive. So, if you take that to an extreme, (madly in love)…