The Ones That Don't Are Not Real Women

You've often heard before people talk about being a man. They're not talking about sex or gender when they use this phrase, but rather, it's an obligation to society and to family that you have to fulfil to validate your masculinity. You have to take care of yourself without being a burden on others. In most cases you also have to pick up the slack of others and bring weaker people under your wing. You have to step up. I actually think this is a perfectly valid social construct, not something we should seek to reduce. We should be under pressure to be the best that we can be for our families and our communities. But I think the time has some for us to also think about women in this way. I have a weird perspective because I used to have one set of stances and decided to change them. But I didn't lose the understanding of why people feel the opposite way. I just now think that a lot of my old worldviews were misguided. And a lot of times my current stances aren't ones that I would have…