Attachments and Suffering

i have experienced the suffering of deep attachment but its totally wrong to say that attachments give us sufferings. infact its the opposite attachments help us thrive "Transformation happens inside attachment" when we are attached to someone then we learn and grow with them we care for them we gain all the values when we are involved with someone, most importantly we start being selfless which is the root for love. i had a really bad idea on "love" even though i have experienced the feeling of love in its pure form. after being afflicted due to attachment towards someone and during the process of resolving my doubts about love and attachment, i found out that i have turned my love into clinging unnoticeably while i was in a relationship with my boyfriend and that's completely a wrong thing to do to ur partner. The difference between love vs Clinging could easily be understood from the open hand theory The theory says when we hold sand in our hand and when we start to fist the sand…