my grandpa still thinks i'm fat

i visited my extended family on my mom's side last sunday to celebrate mother's day. most of my mom's siblings still live in the same house they grew up in, and i actually lived there for a few years too, although my family moved out in the early 2010s. we still don't live too far from one another. a ten minute car or tricycle ride (stoplights included) or a thirty-minute walk will put me right at their doorstep. that being said, i actually don't visit my grandparents, aunts, uncles, or baby cousin often. in traditional asian fashion, my lolo likes to comment on my weight every time i see him. i swear he pays more attention to what i look like than anyone else in this world1 — and for what end, i have no idea! he'll tell me if i've been losing weight or gaining it, but regardless of what my weight's current status is, his main point will always be that i could probably stand to lose a little more. i know i'm not thin, especially by asian standards. to my lolo's credit, i think a lot…