On seeing yourself as inherently broken or flawed

To constantly see yourself as broken or flawed is not the kind of mindset one should ever have. Nobody deserves to carry such a heavy mental baggage. Everyone has issues. Everyone has their own set of problems. Problems are not an issue. Life, in essence, is problem solving but having a skewed "broken" mindset, life becomes an issue in and of itself. Because every problem that arises does not exist in singularity that needs to get solved and the life builds upon that but rather it is a verdict on the incapability and uselessness of yours. It is a label that you are not meant for the it (insert :job/degree/fun/relation/software/skill/habit/sports/LIFE). A mistake, then, is not something separate from your identity that happened but rather an exposure of the flaw that you have been hiding. Therefore you are not supposed to commit any mistake at all otherwise people will know how flawed you are. We as humans are just not built to know everything. We are social being, we thrive my…