I Need to Learn to Rest

Just like the title said. I need to learn to rest. I was just talking to my partner earlier today. We still live in separate houses so some days off we're not together. He always gets bored to tears when I'm not there and I told him maybe he needs to have more hobbies. He told me it's okay to be bored even though he hates the feeling because he needs to rest and recuperate. Lounging in bed, even if he feels like it's a waste of day. That's when I realized I don't know how to properly give myself time off. Even on my days off I tire myself out doing whatever side project, which gets me into "productive" mode, which exhausts me even more. I end the day too tired and wired to sleep properly which turns into this whole cycle of fatigue and exhaustion. Rinse and repeat. I need to let boring days happen. I can maybe read and shower and lightly clean the house. But that's it. When I feel like napping I should. When I feel like going to bed early, I also should. I'm not even sure how I got…