it's my following and i want it my way!

Description: a late response to the social graph talk from last week So last week Spark Social announced their Open Beta and with that their separated social graph. This choice ended up starting a bunch of discussion about how we should be using the social graph in the ATmosphere. More specifically I remember these posts from @dame.is and @iame.li. Between the two posts, I definitely lean towards dame's post. And I hope this post explains my vision behind that reasoning. This whole debacle sp...