A Friend's Sudden Death

I have just attended a friend's funeral. He had a heart attack while playing sports. He was in his mid-fifties, leaving a wife and 2 kids behind. The eldest child is working while the youngest just graduate from university. The youngest was supposed to pursue her masters, but it is unlikely now. My friend is a well-respected businessperson in the industry. There were many visitors who attended his wake. As I sat there watching the grieving family and visitors who were sharing stories, I wondered about tomorrow and myself. When tomorrow comes, everyone will be back on their regular routine. The family is left with an uncertain future. I know I will be back at my work and routine. In a few days' time, my friend's passing is a distant memory. I told his youngest daughter that if she needs help on referrals or network. She is welcomed to ask. I am not well connected, but I will do whatever I can help her. My plate is already full, but do I have to help her? If the table is switched, I am…