Broken Walls

There have been many times where I have faced a situation and didn't act. I'll have that gut feeling, and it'll tell me that I need to say this or do that, but I decided not to. It's tough to put that up against times where I've acted too impulsively, and it makes me wonder where my errors in discernment truly have been. Why is it that sometimes I act right away, but other times I hesitate? Generally, I'm a conflict-averse person. I don't like it when people are mad at me, and of course I've gotten better at handling that as an adult—knowing when to stand up for myself or correct others—but I generally try not to stir up negative emotions in others. At times, though, this will lead to me going along with something I know isn't right. Sometimes my moral barometer isn't fully tuned, I suppose. But yeah, there are plenty of times where I wish I would've been more disagreeable. My issue is that whenever I get into an argument with someone, I've found that while I might perceive myself as…