Accidentally learning things about myself through my hatred of TV characters

There's a telenovela I started watching called Las hijas de la señora García. My Spanish still isn't that great yet, so I mainly enjoy it because it's a show I can actually understand. The storylines are rather simplistic and over-the-top, so it's quite easy to follow. When I started it, I thought it was just going to be a stupid show "for input" and nothing else, but I surprisingly got sucked into it. All the characters are either insane for no reason, evil for no reason, naive to the point of stupidity, or just plain annoying. And yet, despite this cacophony of horrible people, the character I hate the most is the "good" main character. The show centers on an ambitious mother and her two daughters. One daughter, Mar, is young and naive, while the older one, Valeria, is head-poundingly annoying. In the show, we're supposed to root for Valeria because she doesn't care about money, status, or material goods. She believes in hard work. She thinks her mother is overbearing and is…