What’s In and Out for me in 2026

This is probably the kind of post I should’ve done at the beginning of the year or end of last year, but if you’ve read some of my recent posts, you’ll know I haven’t been in the right headspace since late last year. I had to take a break from blogging after I wrote my last post, to process a lot of anger and grief, and to reevaluate my whole life. During that period, I did a lot of journalling, and wrote a list of what I wanted more of in my life, and what I no longer needed. In Out Abundance Bare minimum Taking up space Shrinking myself Self-compassion Shame Asserting my needs and expressing my truth People-pleasing Happy little accidents Perfectionism Friends who truly support me Friends who project their insecurities onto me Friends with shared values Forcing friendships with people who aren’t on the same wavelength as me Feeling comfortable and confident in my own skin/body Feeling ugly and undesirable Staying grounded in who I am Absorbing and internalising other people’s…